Is Being a Gentleman Still Relevant?

I recently posted this on Facebook. “My father-in-law turned 80 yesterday. He has been a part of my life for 36 years. I cannot think of a single moment that he has not treated me with kindness and respect. He is a true gentleman of a bygone era. His sons, grandsons and soon to be great-grandson have a wonderful example to follow and I am deeply thankful and truly blessed to have him in my life.”  It got me thinking.  What does it mean to be a Gentleman and is it still relevant in today’s age?

The original term “gentleman” meant to be of noble birth.  As a man born to nobility  you were required to behave with grace, charm and good character.The term gentleman has changed and means different things to different people.  It no longer refers only to men of noble birth.  Rather, it refers to men of noble character.  In my book, this is a gentleman:A man who has good manners.  He doesn’t pick his teeth or nose in public … or worse.  He says please and thank you, particularly to those who serve him in some capacity.  He gives up his seat to pregnant women and the elderly.  Basically, he is aware of others, especially those who are more vulnerable than him.A man who treats others with respect.  He speaks well of and to people.  He covers others’ faults with grace and goodwill.A man who is welcoming.  He makes you feel that he is pleased to have you around, whether it is in his home, his office or his life.A man who is considerate.  He is concerned about the needs of those around him, careful not to inconvenience or hurt them.A man who lives not only for himself.  He realizes that living for 'Number One' will only serve to make others and himself  miserable.I am truly blessed to know many men to whom the above applies.  To each and every one of you,  thank you for making our world a gracious place to live.